I honestly don’t know if there’s an add-on that tries to do this. But I hope there isn’t, because it doesn’t sound like a great idea. For one, Anki needs accurate grading data from you – not “I got it wrong, but then I gave myself a 2nd or 3rd chance and then I got it right” grading data.
Memory science suggests to us that it’s good for forming memories if you have to reach a bit for the correct answer. But if you reach and get the wrong answer, it’s not good to keep trying wrong answers. That just reinforces that pathway in your brain that leads to those wrong answers. If you get it wrong, you need to reset your brain with the correct information, and start the process again. You can read more in the manual about what Anki is designed to do – Background - Anki Manual .
But this is not important in the context of this topic.
Feedback is important here. You immediately realize that you wrote it wrong. And you can stay longer on this card. For example, try to write it several times before moving on to another one.
Thus creating exactly the problem I first wrote about – trying out several answers until you’re told one of them is right. That’s why I don’t think it’s a great idea.
With or without an addon, you should always be honest when evaluating your answer. If you didn’t write correctly the first time, then this is not a good button.